What if your time is soon?” I was trembling, my chest tightened, I couldn’t breathe, my stomach was in knots and I was covered in sweat. A week after her passing, I lay in bed and a thought came “She died at 28. She didn’t die in an accident, she died in her own home. My dream is different than the interpretation I read online, right? It’s just my thoughts and anxiety trying to convince me otherwise, right?Ħ months ago, I lost a close friend. I know going to him and being unable to reach him and avoiding him are 2 different things, but my thoughts keep telling me, “ what if your dream means you didn’t reach him?” It bothering me a lot. I was never on my way to him or my wedding. What’s been bothering me is that I read somewhere that if a girl sees herself on her way to her groom and doesn’t make it, her death is near, but in my dream, it’s not that I was unable to reach him. In the dream my dad told me that I was to get married to my cousin- I wasn’t told which one- and I wasn’t happy about it, so I went to my room, got ready for the wedding, but before we left to the ceremony/wedding, I escaped alongside my mom and brothers to my grandmothers house. I want an interpretation to it, if it had one. I wanted to tell you about a dream that I got which is bothering me. So it is not good to put all our expectations in dreams at the same times, sometimes we are given information that is helpful for us especially during times of change or challenging times.Thank you for your suggestion. And also it is good to remember that fate and destiny are all in Allah's hands, and we can never be sure what is fixed and absolutely fated to happen and what isn't. For instance a person might have a dream that something will happen in November, they will wait and it won't happen, then it will happen the next year in November. Time uncovers the truth about many things.Įven "true dreams" are understood through the imagination because the brain understands things symbolically.Īlso it is good to keep in mind that even if there are some things in dreams that are correct, sometimes they don't happen when we expect. Oftentimes we have a sense of what has meaning and what doesn't. Insofar as you aren't obsessing over your dreams and you are not doing anything unwise or harmful because of a dream, it doesn't hurt to go with your gut feeling, especially if the dream is saying something useful or beneficial (such as advice or a warning). If he hasn't expressed an interest in getting married then there is no reason to give it thought - he may or may not be ready to get married right now.Īnyway, you are lucky to have a friend who likes you so much that she wants you to be family. However you should make your decision based on the real life circumstances around you, not just the dreams. Of course there is no guarantee that the marriage would be happy but it is worth considering if you think he might be a compatible spouse. It could be nice to marry a friend's brother (although keep in mind it can also change the nature of your friendship, especially if there are marriage problems). It is a blessing to have an opportunity to marry someone compatible whom you might have some trust in. If her brother has expressed an interest in marrying you, and it is a reasonable possibility for you to marry him, you could consider it. Possibly your subconscious is thinking about it even if your conscious mind isn't. If she is praying for this and you know she is praying for this, it makes sense that you might dream about it. Well, people dream all sorts of things, some of them have meaning and some of them don't.
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